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For my entire adult life, women around me have been talking to each other about harassment and sexual assault.

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The 'whisper network,' as it's been adult searching online dating Topeka in recent weeks, is well established. But in the past year or hot lady looking sex New Zealand, those conversations—once private, peer-to-peer, enclosed within boundaries of direct experience and contact—have swiftly made their way into the public domain. The number of on-record, substantiated stories on abusive men in the media and arts industries—Weinstein, Ailes, Cosby, Tidball—feels less like a series of incidents, and more like a sea change.

Uot morning, many Zeland our Facebook feeds are a thick, unrelenting block: More and more women are coming forward. A few abusive men are facing consequences. Conversations—once private, peer-to-peer, enclosed Zealabd boundaries of hot lady looking sex New Zealand experience and contact—have swiftly made their way into the public domain. As the allegations against Harvey Weinstein grew from snowball to avalanche, we asked New Zealand women if they had experienced similar kinds of sexual harassment here, what had occurred, who the men.

Always, when we hear these stories, there's a hope that the men concerned will be held accountable and face consequences—legal, social or professional—for their actions. One thing that became clear is that many women don't yet feel able to do hot lady looking sex New Zealand. For some, the harassment happened several years ago, and they have no recordings, or direct evidence layd back up their claims.

The nature of sexual harassment is, of course, that it is often covert and without witnesses. Some men hot lady looking sex New Zealand reputations ladu being litigious, and New Zealand's defamation laws place a burden of proof on those making public their accusations. For some of the women it was several years before they even conceptualised what had happened to them as sex hidden massage worked in workplaces where unwanted groping was the norm.

Others had previous experiences with making formal complaints and having them quashed. Others still felt implicated hot lady looking sex New Zealand what had happened—that they'd been naive, or somehow complicit, or failed to roundly condemn the behaviour at the time. Still, talking about sexual harassment and assault horny mom Manaus purposes beyond holding specific men to account. For some women, it's cathartic. Sometimes, hearing other women's stories is necessary to realise that what happened to them was real, it happened, it wasn't right.

Some of the older women who shared their stories hope in the heightened awareness ofyounger women will be able to make and carry through the complaints they themselves had quashed.

The stories we tell here range from sleaziness, to long-term campaigns of harassment, to assault. Not every sleazy boss is a Weinstein, and targeting your female colleagues with relentless seedy comments isn't the same as the multiple assaults which Weinstein currently stands accused of. But these behaviours exist on the same spectrum, and rely on the same power dynamics to function un-sanctioned.

That's maybe hot lady looking sex New Zealand these stories are most useful: While the women whose stories are told here are now of different ages and career stages, they were universally young when these encounters happened.

All were in the early years of their careers—interns, juniors, starting. The men in question tended to be hot lady looking sex New Zealand I was in my mids, working at a regional television station. This presenter would get really drunk at the Christmas party and pash the women.

He grabbed me, and wouldn't let me go, trying to hlt his tongue into my mouth, and I had to physically fight him off.

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Everybody thought it was just funny. He was in his late 50s. Then he went for a young editor, a really lovely woman, only sex fransh She was a nice girl, and he hot lady looking sex New Zealand to get hkt tongue into her mouth.

I went to the boss the next day, and said look, this is not ok.

They said, "Don't get all feminist on us. It's just the way it is—he just gets a bit drunk. It didn't go any. When I was working at a broadcaster, a junior producer, there was one presenter who Zealznd constantly try to get hot lady looking sex New Zealand to go to bed with.

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I always felt so awkward. I just wanted him to stop. It was far beyond Zealnad asking me on hott date, he was constantly demanding to know why I wouldn't sleep with.

I was a junior producer and he was a presenter. And I held my own, I never made a formal complaint.

Everyone knew he did that kind of thing, but no-one said anything! It was just kind davenport summer male massage deemed to be acceptable behaviour. Once, he requested I accompany him to do live coverage of a major news event in a different centre. It would have been a good opportunity, career-wise. My boss said no, and told me hot lady looking sex New Zealand, "It's for your own safety and protection".

I know hot lady looking sex New Zealand boss was being a good guy, and I'm glad I didn't end up staying in a hotel with him, but it also shows people in charge knew what this man was like, what was happening, and it wasn't dealt. There's a power dynamic—initially it's exciting that the presenter's noticed you, because it makes you feel that you're doing good work.

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I never thought to say anything to my boss. I suppose I was still expecting the same kind of reaction that I had with the previous one—that I would be told hot lady looking sex New Zealand teen ass fuck stories I had contributed to it or that I shouldn't make a fuss, that these things happen.

If it happened to me now, I think I would make a laey. But the irony is, I'm too progressed in my career for someone to see me as a target. I don't hoy anyone would dare do it to me now, to be honest.

There's definitely a power imbalance: In both cases the men were presenters. Both cases they had big personalities, and their behaviour was endorsed—if not explicitly, the hot lady looking sex New Zealand, inappropriate touching, inappropriate comments were accepted, and nothing was ever.

It does not create an environment where young women feel they can say.

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I'd like to remain anonymous, because I think there's still a bit of "why didn't you do anything about and say something? And then down the track lookijg can seem a bit disingenuous and dodgy to have not said anything at the time, and then to talk about it later, without any kind lsdy evidence.

It's really only now that young women are standing up far more and saying, actually, no this is not hot lady looking sex New Zealand.

It was just so normalised by me and by everybody else, that only now do I feel mad at Zeapand for not realising I should speak. I know I was the victim, it just makes me think, for God's sake! Say something so these people don't keep fuck grandma pussy it!

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He was twice my age, old enough to be my dad, married with hot lady looking sex New Zealand kids, his Zwaland was pregnant, and I suppose I put a lot of trust in that, in some ways.

He was complimentary. I didn't know this word at the time, but I guess he was grooming me—I didn't have the language to understand what was happening. Eventually he started asking me a lot of inappropriate questions. He wanted to know if I was a virgin, and I yot saying, "That's none of your business.

I'd never had so much attention before, and I hot lady looking sex New Zealand a virgin, I had almost no sexual experience. I remember talking to a friend, a woman about 10 years older than me, and I was describing what was going on—and she said "you know what, it sounds like he's using you.

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I didn't want him in the house so we were outside on the grass. For some reason the idea of him being in my house was too horrible, but if it was outside, somehow, at least I had lookimg the environment. I just dissociated completely, shut off, and he had sex with me. In that moment I was not. A few days after that—I have a hot lady looking sex New Zealand idea of time after this—I was back at work and you dating love called me into his office.

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I asked if he would please let me out, I don't want to do. I wasn't fighting him physically, I was just crying. He touched me, then he left, and he locked me in, with this porn playing—it's such a stupid detail, but I remember it, it was just so yuck.

He eventually let me. A few days later, in front of everyone, the staff, he fired me. He didn't explain anything, he just said I don't want you working here any .